Let’s Talk Relationship Health
A community approach to understanding and improving relationship health in everyday life.
When relationships with children or adults feel confusing, complex or under pressure,
and everyone seems to have a different opinion,
I Matter helps you make sense of what is happening
so you can respond with more clarity and confidence - at home or at work or in everyday life.
Two questions that guide this work
1. How is your relationship health?
2. What might help strengthen it?
These questions sit at the heart of Let’s Talk Relationship Health and the I Matter approach.
Choose Your Path..
For Me or My Family?
For Professional or Work Roles
For School, GP, Organisation
Why this matters now
Many individuals, families and professionals are dealing with increasingly complex pressures in homes, schools and workplaces.
Under stress, relationships struggle, communication breaks down, patterns repeat, and situations become harder to navigate.
Yet relationship health is rarely discussed or taught as routinely as physical or mental health, despite influencing how all adults and children cope, communicate, learn and work together.
Thankfully it is never too late to learn more skills. So, if you are ready to commit, you can learn to respond in ways that strengthen connection, reduce escalation, build resiliency, repair old hurts, and improve outcomes for all ages.
👉 New here: What is I Matter?
What Relationship Health learning is in practice
Most people don’t need more relationship advice — they need a way to make sense of it and use it in real life.
The I Matter Framework is a simple, visual learning system that helps people understand relationship health and develop skills for confidence
People learn step by step through entry level Get Started workshops and the I Matter Relationship Health Learning Journey, supported by Community Wheel sessions where they reflect, connect with others, and apply ideas in real situations.
It turns research from mental health, child development, systems thinking and communication into practical tools for everyday relationships.
Learning I Matter is like gaining a map for real life relationships.
What it helps you do
With an understanding of relationship health and the I Matter Framework you and your teams, families and communities will be better able to:
- Become less reactive and respond more calmly and effectively under pressure,
- Make sense of confusing or repeated patterns and know how to respond more constructively
- Recognise stress responses in behaviour and communication and respond in ways that reduce tension and escalation
- Understand the process of conflict and repair in adult-adult and adult-child relationships
- Build confidence in supporting yourself and others in everyday relationships
People can begin applying ideas immediately in everyday situations, and develop confidence and depth over time.
Ways to begin learning about Relationship Health
Choose the route that best fits your situation:
- start free
- join independently
- or access through an organisation
Begin using ideas in real situations straight away, and build confidence over time
Who is it for?
I Matter is for determined people who want to learn what they can do to play a positive part in important roles and relationships at home and work.
It has been designed as a language that can be shared between professionals and non-professionals so they can work better together.
It can support preparation, prevention and early intervention as well as offering a way forward for those in current challenging situations.
It can be progressed through self-paced or supported learning so offers an extremely flexible method of building professional and family confidence.
If you are new to Relationship Health as an idea..
If you are new to the ideas behind I Matter, you may find the Relationship Health books helpful for context and understanding before or alongside the I Matter Learning Journey. There are printed books or ebooks or audio book versions
A flexible approach for busy professionals and families
Many professionals want to support relationship health education more effectively, but do not have capacity for another large initiative.
I Matter offers flexible ways to begin and progress — it can support the deepening of personal understanding and the development of affordable learning pathways via locality hubs or via independent practitioners, that supports family engagement through building a shared language.
Small practical shifts in understanding can make everyday situations easier to navigate and support longer-term change.
For Organisations
I Matter offers a practical, engaging and scaleable way to:
- build shared understanding across teams
- strengthen prevention-focused approaches
- support workforce development
- reduce pressure on the systems
- develop local initatives to respond to needs
Relationship Health Matters CIC supports the real-world application of Relationship Health and the I Matter approach in schools, healthcare, and community settings. This includes pilot programmes, professional training, and local implementation projects.
This is also an active development project - are you interested in contributing?
Help shape the next stages of the I Matter Learning Journey.
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I Matter Training
The Kendal Integrated Care Community has adopted the I Matter Framework as a foundation for how we work together to support people who are struggling. Professionals and non-professionals are learning together.
Dr Amy Lee , GP Safeguarding Lead Kendal Integrated Care Community
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I Matter Training
We are working with increasingly complex and unmet needs in schools. I Matter helps give structure, shared language, and a foundation for working with families in a more connected way.
School Leader , Pastoral Roles, Class Teacher and Parent
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I Matter Training
Considering adults’ needs alongside children’s needs has been transformative. I realised how much my own stress was affecting my family, and that changing this changes everything.
Parent , Parent of teenager with challenges
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I Matter Training
I Matter has influenced my work and home life in very practical ways — from professional practice to parenting and business decisions. It has changed how I understand myself, and my clients, in relationships under pressure.
Independent Psychotherapist , Parent and Small Business Owner
53 Stramongate
Kendal
La94BH
United Kingdom
