The Adult-Child Well-Being
'I Matter' Framework
Reduce your own stress and strengthen the health and well-being of adult-child relationships
Build strong foundations and joined up thinking for addressing challenges
Professionals and parents and young people working better together
From Confusion to Clarity at school, at home and in community
Are you a professional in education, mental health or social care, or a parent-carer who cares about the well-being of children? Do the demands of your role sometimes impact on your confidence and on relationships at work and at home? Deep down are you convinced that there is something missing when we think about how to address the mental health and well-being of children and communities?
So, would you like to be clearer and more confident about the way forward with the young people, parents and colleagues you support, knowing clearly what to focus on, and why, so that life can feel different?
How would it be to have a map and clarity about your own next step - one that helped YOU first and THEN helped you to help others? We think I Matter Framework Training can help!
Dr Cathy Betoin is a practising clinical psychologist, an experienced teacher and a parent. She has worked for over 30 years with children with a full variety of needs and challenges in schools, CAMHS and, Child Psychology settings.
Cathy drew the I Matter Framework together and the linked training journey as a personal response to the confusion she experienced - and still often sees - when professionals and parents seek to determine how to help children, especially those with some additional needs, when there are multiple perspectives that do not support joined up thinking. Cathy currently works with the Kendal Integrated Care Community and the Better Care Together Movement in the Morecambe Bay Area.
Your mission... should you choose to accept it... is to take a fresh look at the research evidence on adult-child relationship health so that in 6 months time, or less, you will be moving forward with ‘I Matter’ plans and action steps that are: i) reducing your own stress at work and at home, ii) improving the health and confidence of key adult-child relationships and iii) supporting more effective work with others to improve outcomes for your children and community.
+ Professionals join a 6 month programme which includes a first 2 month short programme primarily focused on parents-carers which they will be training to make available in their own setting.
Please note: parents can currently only access our core programme via member schools and services - currently only in the Kendal area
IF IN DOUBT - START WITH YOU AND WITH WORKING OUT YOUR ROLE
I Matter Framework Training offers a carefully designed training and coaching process that helps adults and young people strengthen well-being and achieve success in bringing about healthier happier relationships
We focus on one happier healthier relationship and positive step forward at a time
“Professionals: Find out what an I Matter Journey is all about: 15th January webinar at 4.00pm ”
Get started with an Introduction
What is it, why it is needed, how can it help you to help your challenging or struggling child
“Courses for Professionals and for Parents-Carers”
Speak to your Link or Lead or tell your school about I Matter courses
Parents and carers access courses via link and lead professionals in member schools and services
“The I Matter Foundation Intensive: 12th February 2019 - Day 1 - TBC”
Start conversations in your locality
Join an 2 day programme to Get the Big Picture Fast
“Professionals Foundation A: Course: from Confusion to Clarity: Getting Started Workshop:: 12th December 4.15pm and 1.30pm”
Learn the I Matter Framework
Supporting your understanding of your role with challenging children and their families
“Professionals: Foundation B Course: Watching Affectionately: 10th January 4.15pm”
Learn to work with the I Matter Process
Get support putting theory into practice
“Intermediate A Course: Thinking Developmentally: 24th January”
Discover the overlooked world of development
Gain understanding of dynamic processes and more about how you can help
“Intermediate B: Nurturing Growth: 10th January 2020”
Build skills carefully and steadily
Get support with a longer term view focused on skills building
“Join our Link or Lead Professional Training Network 18th October”
Work with others in your community
Make a difference to children with new thinking
I Matter Framework Training Can Help You as it is...
I Matter Training gets people thinking together
We offer resources to help you make a local difference
We help support positive relationships change
Children's well-being is important to us - we knew what we wanted but not how to get there. I Matter Training is helping our schools to pull many disparate needs and initiatives into an organised approach putting adult-child relationship health at the heart of our priorities and school development and community wide thinking
Huw Davies and Peter Barfoot: Headteachers in Kendal
This approach rebuilds the hope and confidence of professionals and parents by providing a language and concepts that we can all work together with that ties elements together. It just makes complete sense
Dr Amy Lee: GP Safeguarding Lead - Kendal Integrated Care Community
"The information drawn together in I Matter Training is like gold dust for parents and carers and teachers of the child who is challenging us. I am loving the training and finding it so interesting!" - Parent and Foster Carer
So I Matter Training helps build better understanding
We help you think through some really important everyday FOGGY observations and about what you want most
We help you get clarity on the evidence, how different observations are connected and about the next steps you need to take
We help you build a team that 'gets' I Matter thinking and can work with you for change
We train you to work with our tools and with others to clarify issues, identify priorities and build skills
We take a long view on relationship building and work with a step by step approach
THE I MATTER NOVICE TO NINJA JOURNEY:
- FOCUS ON YOU AND ON SUPPORTING WELL INFORMED PRACTICE
- INITIAL AWARENESS
- FIRST STEPS: GETTING STARTED WITH NUGGETS AND GEMS
- FOUNDATION A: THE FRAMEWORK: CONFUSION TO CLARITY
- FOUNDATION B: WATCHING AFFECTIONATELY
- SUPPORTING OTHERS
- LINK TRAINING:
- INTERMEDIATE A: THINKING DEVELOPMENTALLY
- INTERMEDIATE B: NURTURING GROWTH
- LEAD PROFESSIONAL TRAINING
- ADVANCED PRACTITIONER TRAINING
About I Matter Framework Training
The Matter Framework training Journey is a carefully constructed psychoeducational training package based on an integration of decades of well-established evidence about what children need to thrive and why. It was drawn together by Dr Cathy Betoin, a practising clinical psychologist, an experienced teacher and a parent, in response to seeing the challenges experienced everyday by practitioners and parents and carers who were looking for help for children and unable to access it.
I Matter Training is carefully designed to help first professionals and then parents and young people find their way through the confusion and the fog that can be found in stressed and challenging relationships via a learning together approach that cements stronger local community relationships in homes, schools and other settings.
At present we are running a small project in the Kendal area in partnership with the Kendal Integrated Care Community. This involves GP's, schools and community training together and learning new ways of thinking about how to address the needs of children who are experienced as challenging or complex. We now use the expression all children can be challenging and complex - some can be more challenging and complex than others!
I Matter offers a training and outlook that can help anyone who works or lives with children.
I Matter Training helps people work together in their own homes. schools and communities
“The Kendal Integrated Care Community has adopted the I Matter Framework as a foundation for our thinking about how to work together in our community to help children and young people and families. Professionals and parents are learning together. It feels good.”
Dr Amy Lee
GP Safeguarding Lead Kendal Integrated Care Community
“The I Matter approach of dealing with the adults before the children is such a useful way to look at things and has turned the dynamics on its head for me. I realised my stress levels are having a huge impact on all of us as a family and learning to change this is starting to make a difference.”
of challenging teenager
“EVERY parent and teacher would benefit from this course. Parent carers are a group of people I would like to get this to. This would be a fantastic opportunity to bring a very isolated group of people together to improve the situation they are in. ”
Carer support professional
Children and adults of all ages
“I am a HLTA but also a parent and foster carer. I work with primary aged children, have 3 teenagers, and foster toddlers! This course has been so valuable for each and every relationship I encounter on a daily basis. ”
Higher Level Teaching Assistant and Foster Carer
Trained for work and home purposes
“Thoroughly brilliant course. Has made an big impact on my own well-being which has meant that I have been more able to cope better with the expected and unexpected aspects of life in a calmer rational manner!! ”
Key Stage 4 Leader and Parent
“The Headteacher and other staff now come to me. They are starting to spot the families who would be helped by some I Matter Training. I work flexibly - sometimes just with the parents and sometimes with the parent and child together.. We use the posters and I can see the moments when the pennies start to drop. This is a new way of working for us. I find it exciting to see the changes that happen. ”
Teacher - Lead Professional
“The registration questionnaire really got me thinking. I realised how isolated I had let myself become and that this was not helping me or my child. I took action the next day and phoned a friend. I also made another follow-up appointment to speak with my GP. ”
“This course has been so much more than I expected it to be. I have learned so many things that have changed my understanding of myself and of my child. I have worked with many services before this but this has really made the difference. Now I know why I Matter ”
Parent of complex child
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