Discover how an understanding of Relationship Health can Help You to Help Yourself and Others in Many Roles and Situations
The I Matter Learning Journey



Therapists and Coaches including counsellors, parent educators — all play a pivotal role in supporting individuals through challenging times and relationships are often a key element of the work. However relationship health is an idea that - to date - rarely gets discussed. In this regard, your skills, knowledge, and confidence directly impact children, adults, families, and communities.
The I Matter Framework equips therapists, counsellors, and coaches with practical understanding, tools, and strategies for introducing complex topics, progressing conversations, and support access to learning that can empower clients through strengthening understanding and skills, support better collaboration across settings, and improve outcomes for young people and adults..
I Matter Training is not seeking to replace professional expertise — it is about enhancing insights and skills to improve outcomes.
Build confidence in relationship based thinking across your setting
Understand and apply the insights from the I Matter Framework in everyday work
Have tools to help you strengthen adult-adult, adult-child, and cross-system relationships
Access CPD-aligned learning pathways
Relationship health is a vital part of overall wellbeing. In primary care, supporting families, young people, and individuals to develop reflective understanding of relationships can reduce stress, improve communication, and enhance outcomes.
Our aim is to make it possible for staff and parents and young people to access relationship health and I Matter informed practice, supported by access to the I Matter Learning Journey creating opportunities for reflective learning, joined-up thinking, and shared problem-solving within our practice.
The professionals role is to enable access and promote engagement, not to deliver the training. We aim to build readiness and motivation in professionals and clients so they are able to move forward with new skills
“We want to make it possible for professionals and practitioners to access I Matter Training so that more people can be informed with the language of relationship health and I Matter Informed practice supported by access to the I Matter Learning Journey. The goal is to enable more reflective individual learning, shared language, and joined-up thinking across professionals, patients and clients and families.”
Check out the website
Look at the books and podcast
Decision point: Decide whether to explore further learning and practical support
USUALLY VIA LOCALITY HUB BUT SOMETIMES VIA CURIOUS ABOUT COMMUNITY
Talk with your primary care practice or school about accessing a Get Started if they are already involved
Join some Community Wheel sessions and start thinking about relationship health as a life skills approach
Support those who are interested in learning more in your home, school or community
Decision point: Decide whether you want to learn more and who could provide informed support
ONLY VIA LOCALITY HUBS
Relationship health is something that can improve when we learn new skills
A consultation can help you think about what needs attention
Strengthen consistent approaches across settings
Decision point: What are the issues, I want to address, and are there some skills I want to learn to move things on?
Access funded or self-funded early intervention online learning to learn the I Matter Framework
Access study support via a participating organisation which is funded or self funded
Decision point: Am I ready to make time to study the I Matter Framework and strengthen my skills
Decide if you have learned enough or want to keep going (though remember that this is a life long learning process!)
Identify routines, communication patterns, and practices that work to promote relationship health in your setting
Keep learning through communities or follow-up resources (membership or phase 3)
Focus on building wellbeing for both children and adults so that
Commitment 1 - I am building a Relationship Health and I Matter Informed Staff Team
“I am part of a growing inhouse team who are relationship health and I Matter Informed”. My team and I can:
Offer: Relationship health and I Matter informed consultations for staff and families and young people:
Links: support clients in accesing more learning opportunities locally and inhouse
Leads: Offer periodic responsive workshops that address needs of our own community
Funding: We can support clients and colleagues in accessing funded and self-funded learning
Commitment 2 – I am working with others to provide a range of support Pathways (Self-Funded or Subsidised)
“We are developing our ability to provide a programme of provision”. This team can support access to
Phase 3 Intensive / Specialist: Individual coaching or specialist referral
Key principle: We aim to have funding for high reach Tier 1 sessions and priorities consultations and self-paced Phase 2 online learning; but optional higher-support access is self-funded or subsidised as part of targetted projects, keeping workload manageable.
Commitment 3 – We are building on our longer term aspirations for more relationship health in our communities
“We are developing our ability to provide relationship health and informed practice as an embedded part of all of our practice. Goals are to
Build understanding and skills of staff, parents and young people
See measurable impact on wellbeing for all parties
Phase 1 Inhouse Get Started sessions offered each term/half term at £95pp with discounts on bulk booking or inhouse delivery
Phase 2 Targetted - Priorities consultations £100pp + access to self-paced online £347pp or £495 with small group for 4 months
Discounts on bulk purchases -Accessed by a handful of patients under organisation license: optional self-funded
I Matter Informed Professional: Join Relationship Health In Professional Practice
All Services: I Matter Posters on the walls or in consults provide reference for starting conversations and emphasising learning and shared thinking
Small practice: Weekly staff huddles review Phase 1 & 2 modules. Teachers integrate reflective micro-practices in classroom transitions and check-ins. Parents receive weekly prompts via newsletters. Tier 2 optional support self-funded by small numbers of parents.
Larger practice: Ag related relational champions facilitate fortnightly reflection sessions. Modules available asynchronously to staff and parents. Reflection integrated into team meetings, events newsletters. Tier 2 groups scheduled termly, capped per cohort; Tier 3 specialist coaching accessed externally and self-funded.
Deliver parenting or child-specific content unless part of their role
Replace therapeutic or clinical responsibilities
Work in isolation — I Matter supports collaboration
The framework enhances professional practice and supports system-wide relationship health literacy without adding unnecessary burden.
Contributes to CPD and professional standards
Supports safeguarding, inclusion, and wellbeing mandates
Enhances multi-agency collaboration
Prioritises Staff wellbeing and reflective practice
Builds on extensive evidence-informed relational approaches
Practitioners supporting children, families, or adults in education, health, or community settings
Professionals working across agencies or systems
Leaders seeking to embed relationship health into organisational culture
Anyone looking to improve relational confidence in their professional role
To create safe, scalable access for individuals and families we begin by training key practitioners. Once trained, a team or organisation can receives an organisation account with licenced access to Phase 1 & Phase 2.
Step 1: Staff sign up for professional training (Phase 1 & 2)
Step 2: Team gains organisation-level access
Step 3: Inhouse team support access to training for clients at their own pace
Step 4: Options for staff to access ongoing professional development
For families in Kendal linked to participating schools with an approved I Matter Link professional, we are running a controlled pilot where parents can access Phase 1 & Phase 2, with optional small-group reflections. This pilot is designed to be manageable, supportive, and safe — and will inform future broader roll-outs.
Self-paced online access to Phase 1 & 2
Optional monthly reflection sessions in small groups
Limited places to ensure manageability and safety
Funding: Self-funded beyond baseline school access if parents want additional support
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Express an interest in professional training
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Express and interest in Professional Training
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The I Matter Learning Journey


