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The I Matter Learning Journey introduces individuals and communities to the language of relationship health and its importance in the wellbeing and development of adults and children. It supports a process of progressing from entry level understanding to deeper, supported practice.
I Matter Training is for:
✔ Professionals
✔ Individuals, adult-adult and parents & carers
✔ Practitioners who want to help others
The above is held together via a network of organisations with specific and discrete roles
We aim to create opportunities for a deeper but practical look at the conclusions of decades of research evidence. A key goal is to support more joined up-thinking, helping professionals and non-professionals to work better together.

Progressing a shared model of roles, boundaries, and flow
The I Matter system aims to support relationship health psychoeducation through local and networked learning.
Different organisations and individuals play distinct roles — none of which replaces services or clinical intervention.
This page aims to explains those roles and the logic of how the system works together addressing the question of
Who is involved?
What does each role do?
How do people enter and move through the system?
“I Matter Learning is delivered through two organisations with distinct roles — one focused on training and capacity building, the other on reflective tools and optional consultation support.”
This map describes how you can think about the way in which relationship health learning is introduced, accessed, supported, and sustained through a community of organisations and practitioners without overloading any single part of the system.
Here are 10 Key Elements
1. Motivated Personal Learners - for Personal Wellbeing or Parenting and Caring
2. Motivated Professional Learners - In education or health or community roles
3. Commissioners and grant awarding bodies
4. Primary Care Services
5. Schools and Nurseries
6. Community Services
7. Locality Hubs
8. I Matter Training
9. Lead Professionals
10. Families and Individuals via organisations
Each one will be explored in more depth below
Primary role
Taking responsibility for one's own personal and parenting-caring skills development and taking action to move things forward.
What happens here
Reflection on personal learning priorities
Conversation with personal and family networks
Conversation with local services and providers
Decision about funding own learning
What personal learners do not hold
No automatic entitlement to joined up learning support
Boundary statement
Individuals can decide to progress their own skills development and conversations but do not have control over the provision of local services
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Primary role
Taking responsibility for one's own professional skills development and taking action to move things forward.
What happens here
Reflection on professional learning priorities
Conversations with local teams
Conversation with local services and providers and clients andfamilies
Decisions about funding own learning
Decisions about applying for funding support
What professional learnings do not hold
Boundary statement
Individual professionals can decide to progress their own skills development and conversations but do not have control over the provision of local services
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Primary role
Commissioners and grant awarding bodies view locality needs through a system overview with knowledge of what is already present and working well and understanding of the gaps
What happens here
Decide to become informed!
Reflection on locality priorities as a system
Conversation with local providers
Supportive funding to progress professional training
Assistance to funding for targetted needs for families
What commissioners and grant providers do not hold
No case management
Boundary statement
Commissioners and grant provides support the skills development of the locality system they do not hold case management
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Primary role
Primary care provides a safe, legitimising entry point into conversations about relationship health with local professionals and families
To include GP's, Health visitors.
What happens here
Normalising difficulty in relationships
Introducing shared language (I Matter concepts)
Helping people name concerns and priorities
Brief orientation conversations
Early signposting
What primary care does not hold
No paid learning transactions
No long-term learning pathways
No ownership of learning data
No expectation to manage ongoing complexity
Boundary statement
Primary care opens conversations; it does not own learning journeys.
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Primary role
Schools and Nurseries act as a trusted community gateway for parent and carer learning.
What happens here
Lead professionals, hosting Get Started workshops (supported by local primary care)
Offer option of access to follow-on online learning
Communicating costs clearly and transparently
Supporting parent engagement at scale
Holding short- to medium-term learning data
What schools do not hold
Specialist case responsibility
Clinical interpretation
Responsibility for complex family situations beyond their remit
Boundary statement
Schools host learning pathways, not therapeutic services.
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Primary role
Community services provide relationship health informed comlementary services for parent and carer learning.
What happens here
Professionals in community services progress relationship health and I Matter informed conversations with young people and families
Offer access to a range of complementary services
Supporting parent engagement in understanding of relationship health informed practice at scale
What community services do not hold
Access to I Matter online learning accounts
Provision of Tracker accounts
Responsibility for holding complex family situations in isolation
Boundary statement
Community organisations facilitate informed discussion of questions of relationship health and support engagement in learning.
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Primary role
Locality hubs provide a neutral, non-clinical container for more structured engagement, overseen by Relationship Health Matters CIC
What happens here
Opt-in use of priorities consultations
Use of digital tools for baseline and follow-up
Time-limited, purpose-specific support
Coordinated learning for families or professionals
Clear consent and data ownership
What locality hubs do not hold
Open-ended support
Crisis management
Permanent case ownership
Boundary statement
Locality hubs support reflection and planning, not long-term holding.
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Primary role
I Matter Training provides the theoretical foundation, learning infrastructure, and quality assurance for the whole system.
What happens here
Online Fundamentals and Deep Dive learning for professionals
Lead professional training
Study support models and guidance
Framework ownership and evolution
Standards, ethics, and consistency
Escalation design (not delivery)
What I Matter Training does not do
Hold individual cases
Act as a referral destination for complexity
Provide ongoing personalised support by default
Replace local capacity
Boundary statement
I Matter Training builds system capacity; it does not become the system.
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Primary role
Lead professionals create local sustainability by holding learning and reflection within their organisation or community.
What happens here
Completion of Lead training
Supporting access to online learning
Sometimes providing study support through Fundamentals
Facilitating reflective conversations
Acting as a first point of learning support
Supporting referral to other services when this is appropriate due to additional needs
What leads do not do
Replace specialist services
Carry responsibility alone
Provide unlimited support
Boundary statement
Leads extend the framework locally; they are not a substitute for services.
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Primary role
Families and individuals engage as learners, not patients or cases.
What happens here
Voluntary engagement
Choice about depth and pace
Clear expectations of what learning is (and isn’t)
Time-limited support options
Transparency about costs and commitment
Boundary statement
Engagement is learning-led, not problem-assigned.
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Motivated personal/professional learners
Commissioners/Grant providers → support development of locality hub capacity
Primary care → opens the conversation
Schools / hubs → provide access to learning
Leads → hold learning for families locally
I Matter Training → maintains the framework and quality
No part of the system passes responsibility downwards without consent.
No part of the system absorbs responsibility upwards by default.
Relationship health is everyone’s business — but no one holds it alone.
This map allows:
scalability
ethical boundaries
clarity in pricing
protection of individual and organisation roles
and genuine system change
The I Matter approach helps adults, young people, and organisations improve well-being by understanding and applying the principles of relationship health. It is learning-led, practical, and designed to support meaningful change — without creating dependency or taking on clinical responsibility.
The I Matter system is delivered through two complementary organisations, each with a clearly defined role:
What it does:
Provides the I Matter learning framework
Delivers online courses, workshops, and professional training
Offers Lead Professional training for local capacity
Licenses learning materials and online programmes
Maintains quality standards and support resources
Who it’s for:
Parents and carers engaging with I Matter learning
Professionals seeking structured training
Organisations building internal capability
What it does not do:
Hold case records
Provide therapy or clinical support
Manage individual family situations
Plain language:
I Matter Training teaches people how to use the I Matter approach. It builds understanding, skills, and confidence — without providing therapy or case management.
What it does:
Provides the Progress Tracker, a secure, non-clinical tool for reflection, goal-setting, and monitoring progress
Offers Priorities Consultations to help families, professionals, or organisations focus learning and next steps
Licenses trained practitioners to provide structured guidance within local communities
Supports local evaluation and insight, without creating clinical records
Who it’s for:
Parents or carers who want to track learning progress and set goals
Professionals looking for structured consultation tools
Local organisations aiming to support reflective learning in their teams
What it does not do:
Act as a clinical service
Hold safeguarding or case responsibility
Replace local services
Plain language:
Relationship Health Matters CIC provides tools and support to help people and teams track progress, set goals,
