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Schools as Relationship Health and I Matter Informed Partners
Schools are central to children’s relational worlds. Learning, behaviour, attendance, staff wellbeing, and family engagement are all shaped by relationship health. Yet it is rarely named or systematically supported.
The I Matter Framework gives schools a practical, evidence-informed approach to:
Strengthen adult–child and adult–adult relationships
Build shared language and confidence across home and school
Support early intervention efficiently
Align with SEND, SEMH, safeguarding, wellbeing, and inclusion priorities
This is not a programme to “deliver to children.”
It’s a whole-system relationship health literacy approach, which crucially, supports adults first, so children benefit naturally.
Relationship health is a vital part of overall wellbeing. In primary care, supporting families, young people, and individuals to develop reflective understanding of relationships can reduce stress, improve communication, and enhance outcomes.
Our aim is to make it possible for staff and parents and young people to access relationship health and I Matter informed practice, supported by access to the I Matter Learning Journey creating opportunities for reflective learning, joined-up thinking, and shared problem-solving within our practice.
The practice’s role is to enable access and promote engagement, not to deliver individual coaching or therapy. We aim to respond to staff and patients readiness and motivation to learn and build skills
“We aim to ensure that all staff and parents and young people can access relationship health and I Matter Informed practice supported by access to the I Matter Learning Journey. This enables reflective individual learning, shared language, and joined-up thinking across staff, patients, and families.”
Commitment 1 - Relationship Health and I Matter Informed Staff Team
“We have a growing inhouse team who are relationship health and I Matter Informed”. This team can
Informed Professionals Offer: Relationship health and I Matter informed consultations for staff and families and young people:
Links offer: support to access more learning opportunities locally and inhouse
Leads can Offer: Periodic responsive workshops based that address needs of our own community
Funding: Named individuals are licensed professionals and organisation funds access to Phase 1 and Phase 3
Signposting: Professionals can identify staff and families with readiness to learn more
Commitment 2 – Optional / Bounded Support Pathways (Self-Funded or Practice-Subsidised)
“We are developing our ability to provide a programme of provision”. This team can support access to
Tier 2 – Phase 2 Supported Learning: Targetted facilitated self-paced or group learning (staff or patients)
Tier 3 – Phase 3 Intensive / Specialist: Individual coaching or specialist referral
Key principle: Practice funds high reach Tier 1 sessions and priorities consultations and self-paced Phase 2 online learning; but optional higher-support access is self-funded or subsidised, keeping workload manageable.
Commitment 3 – Longer term aspirations
“We are developing our ability to provide relationship health and informed practice as an embedded part of all of our practice. Goals are to
Build understanding and skills of staff, parents and young people
See measurable impact on wellbeing for all parties
Tier 1 - Phase 1 Inhouse Get Started sessions offered each term/half term at £95pp with discounts on bulk booking or inhouse delivery
Tier 2 - Phase 2 Targetted - Priorities consultations £100pp + access to self-paced online £347pp or £495 with small group for 4 months
Discounts on bulk purchases -Accessed by a handful of patients under organisation license: optional self-funded
All Schools: I Matter Posters around the school provide reference for starting conversations and emphasising learning and shared thinking
Small school (100 pupils): Weekly staff huddles review Phase 1 & 2 modules. Teachers integrate reflective micro-practices in classroom transitions and check-ins. Parents receive weekly prompts via newsletters. Tier 2 optional support self-funded by small numbers of parents.
Large school (1,000 pupils): Year-group relational champions facilitate fortnightly reflection sessions. Modules available asynchronously to staff and parents. Reflection integrated into assemblies, pastoral sessions, and newsletters. Tier 2 groups scheduled termly, capped per cohort; Tier 3 specialist coaching accessed externally and self-funded.
Provide open ended individual coaching to individuals or families
Offer therapy or counseling
Take on ongoing family support outside safeguarding duties
Practices create a relationship-health literacy infrastructure — a bounded, reflective learning environment — rather than a therapy service.
I Matter Training supports population health and early intervention
Strengthens cross‑sector collaboration
Encourages early, dignified support for families
Aligns with local wellbeing and inclusion strategies
Staff members, Teachers, Pastoral teams, seeing complex needs
Teams wanting stronger links with primary care health and community
Networks supporting prevention and early connection
Hubs aiming to strengthen family and adult wellbeing
To create safe, scalable access for staff and parents, schools begin by training key practitioners. Once trained, the school receives an organisation account with licenced access to Phase 1 & Phase 2.
Step 1: Staff sign up for professional training (Phase 1 & 2)
Step 2: School gains organisation-level access
Step 3: Inhouse team support access to training at their own pace
Step 4: Options for staff to access ongoing professional development
For families in Kendal linked to participating schools, we are running a controlled pilot where parents can access Phase 1 & Phase 2, with optional small-group reflections. This pilot is designed to be manageable, supportive, and safe — and will inform future broader roll-outs.
Self-paced online access to Phase 1 & 2
Optional monthly reflection sessions in small groups
Limited places to ensure manageability and safety
Funding: Self-funded beyond baseline school access if parents want additional support
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